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tactics:listen [2014/03/30 03:40]
naptastic created
tactics:listen [2014/06/09 20:55] (current)
naptastic [Leveraging your failure to listen] Improve listening
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 You could spend a long time trying to figure out the best way to leverage this power, so here is a synopsis of what I've found to be most useful. When you're listening to someone, listen for these three things: You could spend a long time trying to figure out the best way to leverage this power, so here is a synopsis of what I've found to be most useful. When you're listening to someone, listen for these three things:
-  - The words I said, +  - What actually ​said, 
-  - The experience behind those words--like, really, my experience and what it's like for me, and +  - The experience behind those words--especially how I felt, and 
-  - my underlying **commitments** that bring me to say this. Commitments to being safe, being adventurous,​ avoiding failure, ​finding success, whatever.+  - my underlying **commitments** that bring me to say this. Commitments to being safe, being adventurous,​ avoiding failure, ​expressing love, whatever.
  
 ===== Causing others to listen ===== ===== Causing others to listen =====
tactics/listen.txt · Last modified: 2014/06/09 20:55 by naptastic
 
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